Many real estate brokers fail within the first few years

Why Some Real Estate Brokers Fail & How to Avoid It

June 09, 20256 min read

Why Some Real Estate Brokers Fail (And How to Make Sure You Don't)

Becoming a real estate broker sounds like a dream gig. Flexible schedule? Check. High-income potential? Check. The ability to be your boss? Double-check. But here's the not-so-glamorous truth: many brokers don't make it past the first few years. Some barely make it past year one. Why? Because success in real estate isn't just about passing an exam and getting a license—it's about building a sustainable business.

So, what separates successful real estate brokers from those who throw in the towel? Let's break down the biggest reasons brokers fail and, more importantly, how to avoid making the same mistakes.

1. Lack of a Clear Business Plan

Many aspiring brokers dive in headfirst without a solid plan. They assume that having their real estate broker license means the deals will start rolling in. Spoiler alert: They won't. A business without a plan is like driving without a map—you'll end up lost, frustrated, and out of gas.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • No direction means no progress and wasted effort.

  • Without goals, it's easy to lose motivation and give up.

  • Lack of structure makes it hard to measure what's working and what's not.

How to Avoid This

  • Set realistic goals (monthly income, lead generation, closing targets).

  • Create a roadmap for marketing, client outreach, and follow-ups.

  • Track your progress and adjust your strategy based on what works best.

2. Poor Lead Generation (AKA Not Having Enough Clients)

What is the biggest reason brokers fail? Not enough clients. Without leads, there are no sales. Without sales, there’s no commission. And without commission… well, you get the idea. Many brokers rely too much on their networks, only to realize that’s not enough to sustain a business.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • Relying only on family and friends limits growth.

  • No lead pipeline means unpredictable income.

  • Brokers who don't market themselves get forgotten fast.

How to Avoid This

  • Use social media to establish yourself as an expert in your niche.

  • Networking, like your career, depends on it.

  • Join a broker referral program to earn commissions without selling homes.

  • Invest in lead generation tools and real estate CRMs to keep prospects organized.

3. Not Understanding Broker License Requirements and Continuing Education

Many brokers think their education ends after passing the real estate license exam. But real estate laws, market trends, and industry best practices change constantly. If you’re not keeping up, you’re falling behind. A lack of ongoing learning can make you seem out of touch and unreliable.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • Failing to renew licenses means losing business opportunities.

  • Outdated knowledge makes clients lose confidence in you.

  • Competitors who stay updated will always have the upper hand.

How to Avoid This

  • Stay updated on broker license requirements in your state.

  • Take real estate broker education courses to stay competitive.

  • Attend industry conferences, webinars, and networking events to stay ahead.

4. Poor Financial Management

A real estate commission check can feel like winning the lottery. But you could struggle between deals if you don’t manage your money wisely. Many brokers fail because they don’t plan for slow months or unexpected expenses.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • Inconsistent income leads to financial stress and panic decisions.

  • Overspending on marketing without a strategy drains funds quickly.

  • No savings means no safety net when the market slows down.

How to Avoid This

  • Set aside at least 20-30% of each commission for taxes.

  • Create a budget that includes marketing, education, and savings.

  • Build multiple income streams (like real estate referral services) for extra security.

5. Weak Negotiation and Communication Skills

You can have all the leads worldwide, but none matters if you can’t close deals. Poor negotiation and communication skills will sink your real estate career faster than a bad Yelp review. Clients want to feel confident in their broker’s ability to get the best deal.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • Losing deals due to poor communication with clients.

  • Misunderstandings lead to unhappy buyers and sellers.

  • Weak negotiation skills result in lower commissions and missed opportunities.

How to Avoid This

  • Take sales training courses to refine your approach.

  • Listen more than you speak—understanding clients’ needs is key.

  • Learn how to handle objections with confidence and professionalism.

6. Ignoring the Power of Referrals

Many brokers underestimate the power of a good referral network. Referrals are the easiest, most cost-effective way to get high-quality leads. A satisfied client can be your best marketing tool, sending new business your way without any extra effort.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • Relying only on cold leads makes growth harder.

  • A lack of a referral system means fewer repeat clients and lost income.

  • Agents miss out on easy commission from a referral fee percentage.

How to Avoid This

  • Ask past clients for referrals—happy clients are your best advocates.

  • Join a real estate referral services program to expand your reach.

  • Partner with local businesses for mutual referrals and increased visibility.

7. Lack of Patience and Unrealistic Expectations

Real estate success doesn’t happen overnight. It takes months—sometimes years—to build a steady stream of clients and closings. Many brokers quit too soon because they expect instant results.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • New brokers get discouraged when success isn’t instant.

  • Unrealistic expectations lead to burnout and frustration.

  • Impatience results in rushed, bad business decisions.

How to Avoid This

  • Give yourself at least 6-12 months to build momentum.

  • Set long-term goals, not just short-term wins.

  • Celebrate small victories to stay motivated along the way.

8. Not Joining the Right Brokerage or Referral Network

Where you place your license matters; not every brokerage is the right fit, especially if you want flexibility and passive income opportunities. Choosing the wrong brokerage can mean high fees, little support, and limited earning potential.

Why This Leads to Failure

  • Traditional brokerages take high commission splits, cutting into earnings.

  • No mentorship or support leaves new brokers struggling to find success.

  • Limited opportunities for passive income restrict long-term growth.

How to Avoid This

  • Choose a brokerage that aligns with your goals and lifestyle.

  • Consider joining a real estate referral brokerage like IREN.

  • Look for a brokerage that offers flexibility, mentorship, and a strong network.

Final Thoughts: Set Yourself Up for Success

Most Illinois real estate brokers fail because they aren't prepared for the reality of the business. But that doesn't have to be your story. Avoid the common mistakes, build a solid strategy, and focus on consistency.

Whether you’re actively selling homes or getting a broker referral program, there are plenty of ways to succeed in this industry. The brokers who thrive aren’t necessarily the smartest or most experienced. They’re the ones who plan, keep learning, and adapt to the ever-changing real estate landscape.

Want to earn commissions without the hassle of selling?

Consider joining a real estate referral brokerage like IREN, where you can make money by referring clients. No open houses, no late-night calls, just pure referral income.

Ready to get started? Let's talk!


Dr. S. has a proven reputation of excellence & professionalism alike among clients & peers, in Higher Education Administration (Chicago-land market), and is a Publishing Services Provider. Krol is a well-known Multi-Award-Winning Educator (Professor, Speaker, Curriculum & Training Developer, & sought after Allied Health-Higher Education Dean (school turn around expert), while Investing & Brokering over the last 25+years, because of her proven market knowledge, integrity, and personalized approach. She transitioned into Publishing services, and enjoys advocating for authors, is a #1 Best-Selling National and International Author, a Certified Raw Dog Food Nutrition Specialist, and an entrepreneur. Dr. S. is: ➰a Boutique Publishing Services Provider, and Founder of Riley-Infinity & Lemniscate-Infinity Press ➰An Amazon Best Selling, & National Multi-Award-Winning Author (What the Pet Food Industry IS NOT Telling You…) ➰a Health Advocate (Functional Medicine Practitioner) ➰a Co-owner of a Real Estate School (Nationwide) Featured in many articles, podcasts, radio & TV relative to her functional medicine background, pet health & wellness consulting and publishing. She was inducted into The Marquis Who’s Who Publication Board. Her clients books have won a NYC Big Books Award, Silver, and BIBA. Her book has won 2022 Gold-NYC Big Books Award, Distinguished Favorite for Nonfiction Book Cover, 2022 Gold-Nonfiction Author’s Association, Living Now Award-Gold 2022 (IPPY), IBPA Benjamin Franklin, Silver Award 2022 & Independent Press Award 2022. She has very positive professional reviews (Kirkus, BookLife/Publishers Weekly, Blue Ink & The Wishing Shelf). She partners with: other publishing service providers, and independent authors, managing books for High-end Influencers, & Speakers all the way to a la cart folks creating DIY beautiful legacy books for their families. From fiction, to non-fiction, political, business, Ph.D. peers & higher educators alike, to decades long systematic world changers, children’s book writers, working with those passionate about their books, positively moved to change the world! Passionate about reversing disease & pain in dogs, cats & horses around the world, by changing the conversation from yearly vet visits to what we put in and on our pets daily!

Stephanie Krol

Dr. S. has a proven reputation of excellence & professionalism alike among clients & peers, in Higher Education Administration (Chicago-land market), and is a Publishing Services Provider. Krol is a well-known Multi-Award-Winning Educator (Professor, Speaker, Curriculum & Training Developer, & sought after Allied Health-Higher Education Dean (school turn around expert), while Investing & Brokering over the last 25+years, because of her proven market knowledge, integrity, and personalized approach. She transitioned into Publishing services, and enjoys advocating for authors, is a #1 Best-Selling National and International Author, a Certified Raw Dog Food Nutrition Specialist, and an entrepreneur. Dr. S. is: ➰a Boutique Publishing Services Provider, and Founder of Riley-Infinity & Lemniscate-Infinity Press ➰An Amazon Best Selling, & National Multi-Award-Winning Author (What the Pet Food Industry IS NOT Telling You…) ➰a Health Advocate (Functional Medicine Practitioner) ➰a Co-owner of a Real Estate School (Nationwide) Featured in many articles, podcasts, radio & TV relative to her functional medicine background, pet health & wellness consulting and publishing. She was inducted into The Marquis Who’s Who Publication Board. Her clients books have won a NYC Big Books Award, Silver, and BIBA. Her book has won 2022 Gold-NYC Big Books Award, Distinguished Favorite for Nonfiction Book Cover, 2022 Gold-Nonfiction Author’s Association, Living Now Award-Gold 2022 (IPPY), IBPA Benjamin Franklin, Silver Award 2022 & Independent Press Award 2022. She has very positive professional reviews (Kirkus, BookLife/Publishers Weekly, Blue Ink & The Wishing Shelf). She partners with: other publishing service providers, and independent authors, managing books for High-end Influencers, & Speakers all the way to a la cart folks creating DIY beautiful legacy books for their families. From fiction, to non-fiction, political, business, Ph.D. peers & higher educators alike, to decades long systematic world changers, children’s book writers, working with those passionate about their books, positively moved to change the world! Passionate about reversing disease & pain in dogs, cats & horses around the world, by changing the conversation from yearly vet visits to what we put in and on our pets daily!

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